It's true, there's quite a few women who, at the age of 19 or so would be happy to date a man of 35 or older. It's an ego boost fo you and she gets to date someone with experience and confidence with a lot of quirks ironed out.
I have found that it is quite easy and quick to build attraction in a very young woman and I frequently get the vibe that a one night stand is in the offing.
But lets be clear, these are girls, not women. What I mean by women and girls is that a girl is a female who is rapidly changing emotionally, intellectually and physically. When a girl reaches 25, 26 or 27 they enter into what I call 'The Bloom'. The Bloom is when a lot of things click into place, they become emotionally mature, know what they want and are sexually entering their peak. I much prefer dating women this age and older. Entering into a relationship with a younger girl can be hazardous. She is changing fast - faster than the relationship can keep up. How she views you will change over time . She may one day wake up and realize that you and her are vastly different than before and the relationship doesn't fulfill her anymore. The gulf of experience between the two of you can be socially, intellectually and romantically crippling. What experiences and skills can she call on to support you when you need her? What do you really have in common beyond the physical attraction? Since this blog is about finding a woman you can love, marry and have kids with, not just to pick up and date, my advice is to find women in their bloom and older.
Yes, there are exceptions and there's no harm in a one night stand for the mutual benefit and gaming experience but beyond that...
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