Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Open Log: "You'll stay here until I decide you go" True quote

Out at a packed city bar and I spy this cute looking drunk girl. Walk right past her and she gives me this strong IOI with her eyes. I turn to her and say 'You look like trouble' she: 'I am' then we chit chat about her accent. I do a compliance test 'give me your hands' She does 'lower them'  she does. (passing test means I can escalate).  I then do a cold read based on what I see in her hands. She has some callouses so I reckon she does some manual labour and gardening. I 'm right on the money with the cold read. She then says she's ugly etc but I start complimenting her. She easily baited me and I felt like I was entering nice guy death territory with compliments and ass kissing. Still,  she doesn't run away. I keep on holding her hands and do a triangular gaze. We kiss. I then say (to demonstrate I can walk away)  'I was right about you being trouble. I should go back to my friends.' Then she drops this bombshell:

"You'll stay here until I decide you go"

It's important to understand the meaning she was conveying here. What she strongly communicated by her tone and body language was 'I have the power. You are only here because I say so and you will only stay for as long as I find you amusing'.

Wow!

So I say 'That's where you're wrong'. I disengage and turn and walk away. I was committed to walking off an not coming back.
Now you know exactly what happened next!
She grabs my arm and pulls me in.
Then I give her a kiss and she grinds into me like a pornstar.

A great learning moment discovering  a) What a woman is really thinking and b) How to pull the rug from under that thinking, take full control and have her desire you irrationally.

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